Wednesday, August 25, 2010

What are the physical requirements girls value?

Does height matter?
Well, as a matter of fact it is one of the most difficult questions in the world. It is basically asking what girls want. And as in the case of the latter the former too does not have a straight answer. I have been saying the girls don’t give much importance to looks. But then again there are certain things which are important for them too which are related to our physical self and personality. I will jot down some from my personal experience:

· Height:
How I hate to say this. But the truth is most of the girls give lot of importance to height.  If a girl is above average height for girls then she will most probably want someone who is of good height, in the range of 5’10 to over 6. But for the normal, average girls they need their guy to be just taller than them. I haven’t seen any girl so far whose dream guy should be shorter than her. Well it is true that they too can fall for someone who is shorter. But it just happens and not their dream. So when you live up to the dream it helps. But you just don’t need to worry about anything. My height is just 5’4 and so far I can honestly say that I have been successful with girls. But there has been one bad experience which taught me, that in some cases looks do matter. So I would suggest that you guys try looking for girls who are within your height range.

· Dressing and style:
You should have a style of dressing. I am not saying that you should wear only branded stuff though it helps sometimes, at the end of the day what matters the most is whether she feels that you are something she can show to the world. Always keep that in your mind. You can’t blame her for that because we guys too are in no way better. No matter what you wear, wear it with a sense of confidence and style. I will not lecture you over style because different guys have different styles. You just need to identify it and use it. You can use the net to find answers to your style queries. Well, also whatever you wear it should be properly washed and ironed. This gives them the feeling that you are someone to be valued and respected.

· Hygiene:
Well guess it goes without saying, but I jotted this point here because some of us don’t actually give importance to hygiene the way they should. Maybe you take bath daily and all the routines but sometimes if you have body odour it will spoil everything. Also not just body your mouth too can be a great source of your embarrassment. So take special care against this.

· Face:
Girls love to look at your face and also into your eyes. So make sure they look their best. If you have blemishes and marks if possible get rid of it. But even if you have marks which will not go easily don’t worry. You just need to make them like it. Maybe the mark has some history associated with it. You can share it. If it has no interesting origins then behave as if the mark is a reminder of something important in your life. Don’t ever show as if you are embarrassed of the mark. If it is there, then maybe it will some day become your trademark. So just don’t worry about anything. Also girls have a feeling that your eyes tell a lot about you, so it will help if your eyes are pleasing to look at. So what is the best way to keep your eyes pleasing to look at? Just wash your eyes in cold water whenever you feel tired. Take proper rest and sleep well. Blood shot eyes are not that pleasing to most girls. So take care.

· Hair and Nails:
No matter what sort of look you are aiming for, your hair should convey a feeling of well being and good health. Even unkempt look has a sort of cleanliness and vibrancy to it. If you are very young and balding then it is better to change your hair style in order to avoid revealing that the forces of nature at work against you. But in case you don’t want to hide away and feel this is part of you, then make the others believe it too. In case of nails, nothing much is to be said. Keep them clean and short. No, you cannot grow them long because you are not a girl. So until and unless you are looking to be in the Guinness Book of Records for longest nails, cut them short.

So I guess that’s just about it. Incase I find that I left out something then will add it soon. In case you feel that I left out something then please let me know.