Wednesday, May 14, 2014

Why you should not propose first and How to start a relation by saying NO first?

Well this is not a hard and fast rule. But this rule is applicable in your own interest. Be not the one who proposes to first. You can propose as a joke that is, you immediately make it clear it was a joke. The
Make her propose to you
reasons why you should not propose first are given below:
  • Make her want you: When you both have a great and deep friendship and you still haven’t proposed to her, she will be thinking why you haven’t done so. Also she will be thinking of you more often than not. She will feel irritated when she realizes that she also has feelings for you and you are not reciprocating the same. Her that irritation is good.
  • Ball is in your court: When you propose, you are giving her the chance to either accept you or reject you. And even if you say yes the very first time the reverse might not be true. When you propose to her she might give numerous ways why she cannot say yes. But when it her who has proposed the ball is in your court.
  • You don’t seem desperate:  When you wait for her to propose or at least make it clear that she is interested in you, you make her feel that you are not desperate and have stronger positive attitude and personality. Trust me she will respect you for that.
  • Women like strong men who take action. Really? Yes and No. They do like it when men take action but you making them irritated by not taking action is more beneficial as by not proposing you are not being a weak man. You are being a man who doesn’t know about his feelings just like any actual MAN. The real man, who doesn’t go around town proposing women. It also means that you value her and the friendship with her which is very, very important.
  • She will value you: When finally you do start a relation, she will always cherish you as her conquer as she was the one who proposed and conquered you and not the other way round.

What to do when she proposes (if she proposes that is)?
  • When she finally proposes, say NO: What? Really? Yes, you read it right. When she finally says she has feelings for you, you say no. How? Ohk. When she has finished proposing or opening her heart- you say “You are not joking right? (Silence for some time) I value our friendship. I have had (or seen) (depending whether you had bad experiences and she knows about it or when you have seen some friends of you suffering) some bad experiences where the friendship broke cause of starting a relationship. I really have very strong feelings for you but I don’t want the same to happen to us. I don’t want to lose you forever. So can I tell you after some time? Till then can we continue to be just friends?” This like- HELL or sometimes not. I mean here the thing is you have made it clear that you have thought about it but haven’t said so because you value her friendship. Though above line is really cheesy, it works.
  • Your time to say YES: Well, try to remain friends for some days or maybe a week. Then if she pesters you for an answer, smile and say “you my dear have stolen my heart away”. If that doesn't work I don’t know what will.
The steps mentioned here have their chances of screw ups also. So you are advised to follow them at your discretion. The major problem that can occur is you overdo your part of not proposing and she also doesn't yield to speaking her heart out. In those situations though there are some ways in which you maybe able to make her speak out. But here I would advice you to listen to your heart and do as it says as no one knows better than you. Well, I have not been posting for such a long time and now as I have readers and often am asked doubts I thought of continuing this blog. So this is a dedication to all those who followed this blog and to all those who will in the future. Cya and Happy dating...

How to have a great conversation and build a relationship with a girl through texting (SMS), Whatsapp, FB or BBM?

Best ways to impress girls through texting
In today’s dating scenario there are no relations which can survive without the least bothersome method of communication- texting(sms) or Whatsapp or Viber or BBM or FB. Be what the name, it is the best way for you to start a conversation with a girl and make a deep relation with her. The best thing about texting to impress a girl is that it doesn’t creep into her privacy as she can reply when and if she feels like. Also if you ever build a true relation with her, you can always re-read the old messages from the beginning till the end how the relation came into being and how you can cherish it for the rest of your life. So let us start, shall we?

  • Get her number: The best method I prefer is to ask her directly. Though you cannot ask for the number to a girl who doesn’t know you much, you can ask for her number if you have talked to her sometimes. I will be writing another post detailing how to get her number. But for the time being I can say you can ask for her number as long as she doesn’t think you have some hidden agenda (which you have). Make sure you get her number from her itself else you might seem like a stalker and she will feel nervous and closed towards you. Be open and bold. Make it seem as if it’s not a big deal.
  • Introduce yourself: As I said in the case of telephone conversation, in messaging also always introduce yourself until and unless you both are already great friends, which I don’t think is the case here. Well introducing yourself if she doesn’t have your number already is also a great conversation starter.  Just message her- “Hi there (or Name), this (your name). You can save this number for reference. Anyways have a great day and take care”. Make sure you send this message in the morning and when she is fresh. Most probably she will respond with thanks and same to you.
  • Send her forwards: Forwards is the best way to keep the lines of communication open as well as indirect. But just be sure to send her unique forwards such as jokes or quotes. Something which has not been doing rounds around texting world for long. Also the jokes should not be dirty jokes as it is not time for it yet.
  • Keep an eye for her reaction: You should observe her. How she responds, if she is actively ignoring all your messages. If she hasn’t responded to any of your messages you should stop messaging her but not before messaging- “Hey I feel I have been messaging a wrong number all this while, sorry for the inconvenience.” This really calls for some reply. But then again if there are no responses then you should probably not message her until you see her in person. What will you ask her when you see her in person? Just say, “Hey I guess the number I saved last time was wrong, I sent some messages without knowing it. Nothing much just some forwards and a hi.” After saying this, don’t ask for her number. If she has even the slightest of interest in talking to you she will say something, like “oh no the number is mine, I was just busy so couldn’t reply”. So if she says that, then you have to make it clear saying “hey it’s ok, just thought the number was wrong”. Well this is it. If she says that then it means the next time when you message her she will reply for sure.
  • Be prompt: In the first few days it is a difficult game. You have to time your messages. If she sends you a message you have to prompt but not so prompt that she might think you don’t have anything else to do. The good rule of thumb is that if you are busy, you don’t have to reply immediately unless it is urgent. If it is urgent be prompt as you have to be seen as someone who is there when the time calls. But let her know that you have taken time from your work or other engagement (but for God’s sake don’t overdo it). You can do that how? Well, suppose you both talk and then when her urgency is solved you tell her you have to rush as someone or some meeting or something else is waiting and you will catch up with her later.
  • Be funny: Hey! Can’t stress on this fact enough. Be funny, tease her- but don’t make fun of her. There is difference. Teasing is funny; making fun of her is not. You must have seen in movies like how you compliment her and in the very next sentence you turn it around teasing her. Do the same. She should see your compliments as a start of a joke like- “Oh was waiting for you for so long. Was tired of counting sheeps to go to sleep, now you are here I can fall asleep easily, hehe or :D”. Don’t make any of your teasings personal such as if she has a bad language or she is dark or something don’t tease based on that. She should get used to it your harmless teasings. Then after some time you give her a genuine compliment. She will be able to value it more. You should also use appropriate emoticons wherever you deem fit.
  • Building friendship: OK forwarded messages apart, it is time for you to build on the personal messages. Inquire as to how her day was, or sometimes the best way is to ask her opinion on some problem of yours just like you will ask you friends. This genuinely opens up the channel for communication which is easier to keep up. Also this will make her more open to you.
  • Give advises: Give her advises when she asks for it. She might tell you some problem of her. If she does it means she is seeking your opinion. Give her your genuine opinion. If she is not exactly asking for your help just say, “I know I am no one to tell you but, don’t you think….(explain what the solution should be)”.
  • Talking dirty: No it doesn't mean you start message sex but it means you both come out of your comfort shell and be more open to each other. SMS sex is whole another ball game and so is talking dirty. This will be covered in detail in a future post. Well the start of talking dirty is sending forwards. But in order to make sure how she feels just her an adult message immediately followed by a very, very, very sorry message saying it was wrongly forwarded. While a sorry or very sorry message might get ignored, a very very very sorry message seldom does. This is to get her reaction. Based on that you can move forward.Talking dirty is not just for your sexual satisfaction but rather for you both to be more open.
  • More personal talks: If things have gone well so far, you have to go to more personal talks like actual indirect flirting. What is that you ask? Tell her how you wish you could marry her. She will be like what? Then you say, yes I have done so many sins, it is better that I suffer for all that here on earth itself so that I am not taken to hell. She knows you didn't mean it. But it’s indirect. She can’t blame you. The ending of this step is when you can say “I love you” to each other knowing very well that it’s not that type of love. You may like when she says something you really liked may kiss her (thru message of course) on her forehead or cheeks. That too can be explained in detail. So yes another blog topic to write about. Keep posted to read more.

In the end of all this you have a friend who might just turn out to be something more. You can talk to her over phone and here are ways to have a great telephone conversation. Use all the things you learnt here in ways you deem fit. But do remember in all these steps and unlimited flirting you never propose to her. You don’t want to be the first to propose. Why? Post will come. Be the butterfly that’s beautiful to look at but difficult to catch. So that’s all for this post which has already turned out to be so freaking long. So cya for now and happy dating.

Saturday, October 23, 2010

How to have a killer telephone conversation with a girl?

Talking to a girl on the phone
As I promised earlier, this is my post about how to have a good conversation over the phone. Since these days most of the relations develop over the telephone, it is important that you are equipped with knowledge on how to talk to her over the phone in the best possible way. So let us get down to business:

  • Identify yourself:
    In case you are calling or texting her  for the first time and she does not have your number, identify yourself the very first time. Never try to play Guess who or secret admirer game. She would feel as if you are stalking her. Calling without identifying yourself is fine only when you both are great friends, which I suppose is not the case here.

  • Respect her Privacy:
    Just because she gave you her number it doesn't mean she has to talk to you all the time. Respect her privacy and give her the needed space.

  • Talk about something interesting:
    Since in the early stages it is difficult to keep the talk alive over call, I prefer texting. I start with unique forwards then some personal messages like Good Night (Name) or Hey (Name)! Wassup etc here and there. With the text messages the best thing is that you don't crawl into her personal space. Get to know her interests then move onto calls when it is convenient for both of you. And choose topics of interests to both.

  • Move onto personal topics:
    Moving to personal and deeper topics is something to be done with at most care but to be done nevertheless. It is like, you approach indirectly first, then based on her reactions change to a more direct approach. Suppose you need to know her views about love, relationship etc. You can first say, "I had a terrible day. One of my very good friends is left with a broken heart." Then make a story. Tell it convincingly. Then, "What crap yaar, why all the tension? Right?". You can also say, "There was a time when I was hoping for a girlfriend, but now, it is better not to have one." The best thing about this is that she may get the subtle hints of flirting she cannot accuse you of anything as you have said everything indirectly. Parents, siblings, relationships are good way of starting up with personal talk.

  • Give her sound advice:
    If you are able to make a good rapport with her, then it is highly likely that she will for advice with one thing or the other. At those times you need to talk from her point of view and then give a sound advice. It should be something that you may do under similar circumstances, something you can defend.

  • Whisper
    Sometimes if the calls stretch to late night calls. Reduce your voice to a whisper. Say it is because there is someone there at your place or some other reason. She might ask you to keep the phone then. You can say, "No, it is OK. I want to talk, provided you are not feeling sleepy." This acts as if you both are sharing a secret which helps in deepening the relationship.

  • Keep the Phone:
    In case you are feeling sleepy or you feel she is, keep the phone after wishing her for the night. In case she slept off while on call, cut the call and DON'T call or text right then. The next day is OK. Also if she cuts the call without saying anything, don't call her right then. She may have reasons to cut the call and she may not want your calls at that time.

  • Don't always call her:
    It is not important that it should be you whos is calling all the time. She will call you when she misses  you. How to make her miss you? That is what I talked over throughout the blog.
So thats all for time being and take care. Happy Dating

Fast Dates? Myths Busted

Speed dating?
Hey Guys! long time, right? Was working my ass off at office. Well, It is over with. Thought it would never. Anyways, recently a friend of mine asked me a way to speed up the process of impression as the methods I listed are time consuming and slow. Also it cannot be used at restaurants, coffee shops, clubs etc where you see a girl probably for the first time and you don't have all the time in the world to go about with the steps of my suggestions. Well, it is true to certain extend so as to speak. But in order to impress a girl under these circumstances you need one or more of the following:

  • Amazing Looks or/ and Lots and Lots of Money
  • A really open minded girl
  • Pure luck or in other words a chance
I don't need to explain the first point as it is self explanatory. Well regarding the second point, by really open minded girl, I meant someone who doesn't perceive you as a potential threat but rather a potential friend or someone who is interested in her. You can probably identify them if you observe them for sometime. I will write another post on how to identify such girls. But in case you aim of impressing a girl whom you will see just for 5-10 minutes once and maybe never again, then I am sorry to burst your bubble but I don't think these posts can give you a step by step process until and unless, you are Brad Pitt, Hrithik Roshan or someone of that sort. In case you are one of them, all you have to do is to... SMILE.

No matter where you are, there are some instances of pure luck when something happens such that you both get a chance to talk, like common friends, she or her friend accidentally drops Coke, coffee or something of that sort on YOU(Ooh... I seriously doubt you will have time to talk cause you will be busy with cleaning yourself). But whatever, in case you are given with a chance, capitalise it.

So what I mean to say is that there is no step by step guide to impress a woman under these circumstances but the best way is to approach directly. You need to have the balls...(without it, what is the use of the Girl anyways? ;-)) Go talk to her and tell her that you are interested in knowing her. Don't say friendship or something of that sort. Just think nothing worse can happen (provided she doesn't have any guys with her). Probably she will say no, but does that make a difference? There is nothing to lose. But a lot to gain. So just think.

So that is all for this post. Happy Dating...

Thursday, September 9, 2010

Step- 2: How to talk to girls

Alright it has been sometime since I posted anything here. It is just that I have been a bit busy with something. But I have been keeping myself posted with the blog. So I guess it is time for the next step of our art of deception and manipulation of Indian women.

In order for me to go ahead with this step it is important that you have mastered the Step- 1. So let us move on.

Now since you have started having a conversation with the particular girl, it is time to earn her friendship. She might be a bit skeptical at first but with your straight forward attitude she will have her defenses down a bit. You need to utilize it. So the first question that might come to your mind is what to talk about? Well, how the hell should I know? I am not a mind reader. You need to find out yourselves. But I can guide you over the basic aspects that need to be there in the conversation to keep it going and also develop a more in depth relationship with her. Though at first you might not get much chance to talk to her properly, these guidelines will be helpful whenever you do develop the chance.

 The basic points you have to keep in mind are:

1.    Listen:
I guess you have heard this many times before but it still remains the same; you need to listen to her. Listening means paying attention to her and also as to what she is talking. No matter what the subject is, you need to listen. If possible contribute something to the conversation, it helps. But remember if it is a topic which she knows a lot about and you on the other hand are as dumb as a twig about it, it is better to act as someone who doesn’t know about it but at the same time is interested in understanding it. If you listen properly you can ask some genuine doubts. This interest of yours will have an effect on her which will work in your favour.

2.    Talk:
Though it is good to let the girl do the most of the talking if you remain silent throughout then she might feel that you are not interested in talking or sometimes in other words, you are boring. So you need to talk. You don’t have to be a chatter box but whatever you say should be relevant to the topic you both are talking. As I suggested earlier, genuine doubts are good. It is also important that on certain days you lead the talk. I am sure there will be topics of which you know a lot about and which is of interest to her too. You just need to find it. The initial days are for that. Also keep in mind avoid abusive language and swearing as Indian girls resent it, at least in the early days. It is important that you treat her with respect.

3.    The Voice and Sound modulation:
Your voice should beam confidence and should make her feel her that you are happy to talk to her. Always talk clear with proper voice modulations and style. Each of us has a style. You just need to develop it. It is good that you have some bass to your sound as most girls find it appealing and sexy.

4.    Disagreements:
If there is something you don’t agree with don’t go all out against her with the disagreement. Just tell her what you disagree with. You need to back your views with valid reasons and justifications. At no point should you raise your voice to make the point. Though it is not a debate, in case of disagreements it is always better to treat it in a scholastic way.

5.    Talking over the phone:
If possible get her mobile number. Though there are many ways to make her give the number, I choose to ask. It is just that you need to know when it is fine to ask her without invoking her fears. Also when you get her number make sure she has yours too. So it is important that you don’t actually call her right after you get the number. Text her some forward about friendship for a few days. But again try to be as new as possible. Don’t send her the same message which you have received countless times before. Invest sometime to find some new messages in the internet. You can read more about Texting here. Then you may give her a call sometime. Keep the call short and during normal hours. Here you can read how to have a great conversation with her over the phone as I guess in today’s world most of the relations develop over the phone. So it is something to be given thought to.

6.    Sharing talents and hobbies:
There is no body without any talent. I am sure you might have some thing that will fascinate her. Maybe you are good at drawing or singing or dancing or something else. If nothing then maybe you are good with relationship advises. No matter what, you are good at something than others. Identify it and use it. Ask her about her hobbies, if she says reading and you happen to share the same hobby then ask her what sort of books, her favourite author etc. Talk about various authors without making her feel, that you are a nerd. If that is not one of your hobbies tell her how much you appreciate someone who has good reading habits. Make her feel that you too want to have a good reading habit or something of that sort. This will help in developing your budding friendship and it will also help you identifying traits, characters, interests of her which will be very much needed in the future.

7.    Sense of humour:
You need to have a good sense of humour. By sense of humour I mean where you humorous without harming others feelings and also being able to accept the times when you are being made fun of without any resentment. You don’t always have to crack jokes and act funny but based on the circumstances you should be at times. I can write pages and pages but can never fully explain how to have a good sense of humour.

8.    Compliment her:
Last but not the least, you need to compliment her. But here again, I didn't mean flattery. It means a genuine compliment. Also I didn't mean her physical self. Try to really see what the good characters in her are. Get examples of those. When you really feel that she deserves it, lavish it upon her. But never ever over do it. Tell her something which herself might know. But it is always good to hear from someone else.

Already the post has become too long. But it’s just that I have so much to say over all these things, maybe I will write more posts elaborating each step some time. But guess for the time being this will do.
So bye for now and happy dating…

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

What are the physical requirements girls value?

Does height matter?
Well, as a matter of fact it is one of the most difficult questions in the world. It is basically asking what girls want. And as in the case of the latter the former too does not have a straight answer. I have been saying the girls don’t give much importance to looks. But then again there are certain things which are important for them too which are related to our physical self and personality. I will jot down some from my personal experience:

· Height:
How I hate to say this. But the truth is most of the girls give lot of importance to height.  If a girl is above average height for girls then she will most probably want someone who is of good height, in the range of 5’10 to over 6. But for the normal, average girls they need their guy to be just taller than them. I haven’t seen any girl so far whose dream guy should be shorter than her. Well it is true that they too can fall for someone who is shorter. But it just happens and not their dream. So when you live up to the dream it helps. But you just don’t need to worry about anything. My height is just 5’4 and so far I can honestly say that I have been successful with girls. But there has been one bad experience which taught me, that in some cases looks do matter. So I would suggest that you guys try looking for girls who are within your height range.

· Dressing and style:
You should have a style of dressing. I am not saying that you should wear only branded stuff though it helps sometimes, at the end of the day what matters the most is whether she feels that you are something she can show to the world. Always keep that in your mind. You can’t blame her for that because we guys too are in no way better. No matter what you wear, wear it with a sense of confidence and style. I will not lecture you over style because different guys have different styles. You just need to identify it and use it. You can use the net to find answers to your style queries. Well, also whatever you wear it should be properly washed and ironed. This gives them the feeling that you are someone to be valued and respected.

· Hygiene:
Well guess it goes without saying, but I jotted this point here because some of us don’t actually give importance to hygiene the way they should. Maybe you take bath daily and all the routines but sometimes if you have body odour it will spoil everything. Also not just body your mouth too can be a great source of your embarrassment. So take special care against this.

· Face:
Girls love to look at your face and also into your eyes. So make sure they look their best. If you have blemishes and marks if possible get rid of it. But even if you have marks which will not go easily don’t worry. You just need to make them like it. Maybe the mark has some history associated with it. You can share it. If it has no interesting origins then behave as if the mark is a reminder of something important in your life. Don’t ever show as if you are embarrassed of the mark. If it is there, then maybe it will some day become your trademark. So just don’t worry about anything. Also girls have a feeling that your eyes tell a lot about you, so it will help if your eyes are pleasing to look at. So what is the best way to keep your eyes pleasing to look at? Just wash your eyes in cold water whenever you feel tired. Take proper rest and sleep well. Blood shot eyes are not that pleasing to most girls. So take care.

· Hair and Nails:
No matter what sort of look you are aiming for, your hair should convey a feeling of well being and good health. Even unkempt look has a sort of cleanliness and vibrancy to it. If you are very young and balding then it is better to change your hair style in order to avoid revealing that the forces of nature at work against you. But in case you don’t want to hide away and feel this is part of you, then make the others believe it too. In case of nails, nothing much is to be said. Keep them clean and short. No, you cannot grow them long because you are not a girl. So until and unless you are looking to be in the Guinness Book of Records for longest nails, cut them short.

So I guess that’s just about it. Incase I find that I left out something then will add it soon. In case you feel that I left out something then please let me know.

Sunday, August 22, 2010

Step- 1: How to start the first conversation?

First conversation with her
All right here we start with the first step on our way to impressing girls and the art of deception and manipulation. Remember that looks here are not important. So incase you have feeling that you are ugly have no fear as girls don’t judge much by looks.

How many times have we hoped to have a chance to talk to the girl of our dreams? But never had the nerve to start the conversation. How many times have we seen a girl daily but other than a passive look we have not been able to earn anything more? So our first step is for those poor souls.

“Ogling at a girl will not do any good, but a well timed and well placed look can make all the difference.”
  • The holding look
    Did you know that best looking, part of your body is your eyes whether you are a gal or a guy. No matter how bad you look, your eyes are as beautiful as you want it to be.

    Yes the first step to get the attention of the particular girl is to make an eye contact. The look should be long enough to differentiate it from a passive glance but at the same time not a stare. As we know Indian girls are very careful in respect to strangers and so any direct advance early will make them go into defensive. Which is the last thing will we would want to do. So let us go into the details of the ‘look’.

    The look should be for about 5-10 seconds (not longer), directly into her eyes. Don’t get panicky if you both make eye contact. Just act cool. Keep the look for maybe 6 seconds then look at someone whom you know or are talking to. Avoid looking down right after the ‘glance‘. You can have the holding look while walking, standing or sitting. But care should be taken that you don’t turn back and stare at her as this is unfriendly. Any time you have to turn your head for more than 90 degrees on any side from looking straight is a reverse glance. This should be avoided. Specially during the first few days. Also it is better to avoid all sorts of facial expressions the first few days. Try this for a week. See if there are any changes in the way she looks at you.
  • The Smile
    After a week you can include a slight smile with your look. As in the case of looks, smile too must be timed. It must not be a grin or a smirk. Just a light happy face first then you can move up as days pass on. Timing should be first you look, then you recognize then smile. Look away after 6 seconds while smiling. But as soon as you have looked away stop smiling. You don’t want to look like an idiot in front of her. This is just showing recognition. This is necessary to break her defense against strangers. You have to properly notice her reaction the first time you give her a smile of yours. If she shows detachment repeat the looks part again.

    Ok, now I hope that you have got the looks and smile in place. I will call the step a success if she too returns your smile. So if you have earned her smile, here comes the third step of our ice breaker.
  • The First Talk
    Oh yes! You will talk to her. Don’t worry, nothing much. You just have to wish her ’Good Morning’ or something of that sort. It is better to avoid hello as it necessarily doesn’t convey anything. But a Good Morning is much better as it sound somewhat official. This again is just a suggestion. . This is to reassure her that you are fine and she need not worry about you or your advances.
  • The Conversation
    If things have been going fine during the above steps, you are ready to go for the kill. The Actual conversation. You can start with a hello, something more informal as compared to the earlier Good Morning stuff. Then move on to something that is happening and interesting. You can say a sentence and then based on her response ask her a question which cannot be answered in a mono syllable. This will help in keeping the conversation moving. But if you think she is not interested in talking, just think that the day is not good. There are many other days which can be utilized. So don't be disheartened.

    During the course of time I have faced some very interesting situation. One is that no matter what you do, the girl will not make an eye contact. One way I approached such girls was I made situations where they had to look at me. Like dropping the kerchief or something like that near her. And asking if she can pick it for you. Then when she looks at you give her one of your killer smiles.

    In case you have any queries or an unique situation, please let me know. I will do my best to provide you with a prompt response...

    Happy dating...


How to impress a girl? Only very few in this world will be there who have not thought of it again and again. If you do a 'Google' search you will find loads and loads of sites dealing with the topic of impressing girls. But most of them deal with dating, parties and stuff which are not much prevalent in India. So one needs to find methods which are necessarily Indian. Again the steps mentioned in those sites are not the best for Indian women. Though there is no hard and fast rule as each girl is different. They have their individuality and identity leading to specific traits but there are certain common traits which we can exploit.

This is where this blog can help you. Here you will have step by step procedure on how you can proceed with impressing your dream girl. There will be posts from ice- breaking to love making. But this blog does not stress upon finding true love. This is mainly dedicated to go in step by step process over the ways to achieve the objective. This is for those guys who are branded as uninteresting and who have been so far doomed to live a life without the colours of a love life. It will also be useful for those poor souls who are doomed to remain a a great 'friend' for ever. You can change it. You can change yourself and your life if you set your mind to it. You can push the bar higher, what about dating multiple girls at the same time? Interested? Of course you can do that. The only thing you require is trust in yourself and confidence. You can be a 'Casanova'. The best lover in the world. (Alright I exaggerated, this time). But jokes apart you are an asset and methods listed here and to develop you as a whole rather than just explaining how to 'get laid'. 

Even if you are looking for a long term and true relation, the methods listed here might help you get an additional advantage. There is manipulation and deception here but as you know anything is fair in love and war. And this my dear is love if not war.

But there is a warning. Though you can have multiple relations at the same time. It is strongly adviced that you take special care to maintain privacy of each relation from the other. Also more than four relations same time is also not adviced as each relation requires your time.

The steps I will be explaining here are based on my personal experience and of my near and dear ones. So I am not guaranteeing anything but these steps have been tried and tested and the discretion is yours.

But incase you have chosen to follow the steps outlined in here. My advice would be to do it sincerely and not cheat in it. There is no scope for half hearted interest. You will need to put your 100% to it. I have done my best to post methods which does not clash with ones daily activities but incase of clash I again advice you for your sound decisions. So that is all for now... Happy dating